I am becoming weary. I'm becoming tired. I am not a quitter and I will never stop talking about what is right and wrong. But I have had enough. I am of course talking about the issue of racism.
We have revisited this once again with the comments Rush Limbaugh made that some believe are racist. I don't believe the comments were racist, I think his analysis of Donovan McNabb was wrong, but on football terms.
What I AM tired of is the thought that anything controversial that comes out of a conservative, white person's mouth must be racist. And the further outrage that the "offended" groups feel at the slightest provocation.
I'm a conservative, white, male who counts among close friends, blacks, hispanics, asians, women, men, women, straights, gays, liberals and conservatives. IT DOES NOT MATTER TO ME THE COLOR OF SKIN. Character matters to me! And if a black man or white woman or conservative or liberal is acting like an idiot, or getting special treatment I WILL POINT IT OUT.
But the problem I see is that if that person is a minority and they become offended, I am branded a racist, or a sexist, or a homophobe. That is not right.
I am outraged ALL THE TIME by people who call me a bigot, a Nazi, a mindless drone, and many others. But I am strong and I can take it. I know it's not true. I've learned to have a thick skin.
It's now time for EVERYBODY to get thicker skin. I once worked with a talk show host who had a caller call her a N***ER on the air. She broke down into tears. I told her, "well, are you?" "Of Course not", she replied. "Then why are you upset? He has no idea who you are, but he's ruined your night due to a WORD. YOUR STRONGER THAN A WORD!"
We as a society need to be stronger than the words of idiots on all sides. When Cruz Bustamante uses the same racist epiteph, people understood that it was a mistake and gave him the benefit of the doubt. When Denver's new WHITE Mayor John Hickenlooper welcomed "all of you people to Denver" during a black business conference, people gave him the benefit of the doubt.
Why?
Because they looked past the words to the person and realized they weren't trying to be racist, and THEY WEREN'T OFFENDED. This needs to start happening on a much larger scale.
This is not to say that the people who DO have racism in their hearts, NO MATTER WHAT RACE, should not be condemned. But to condemn everytime, even when its not meant that way does two things. The first is decreases YOUR credibility, and second, takes severity away from the times THAT REAL RACISM OCCURS.
WE NEED A BIT OF NOVACAINE FOR OUR SENSITIVITY!